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Why Your Best Ideas Keep Getting Rejected
You pitched the idea. It was solid. Logical. Backed by data.
They said no anyway.
Here's what nobody tells you: people don't reject ideas. They reject the way those ideas make them feel.
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How Influence Works (And Why Yours Isn't)
Every "no" you've received had less to do with your proposal and more to do with one of three emotional blockers:
1. Threat Response Your idea triggered their fear of looking bad, losing control, or being exposed. The brain's defense system kicked in before logic had a chance.
2. Effort Perception They calculated the mental cost of processing your request and decided it wasn't worth the energy. Not because it wasn't good, but because you made it feel heavy.
3. Identity Mismatch Your ask didn't align with how they see themselves. People say yes to things that reinforce their self-image. Everything else gets filtered out.
Corporate application: Your promotion pitch failed because your boss felt threatened, not because you weren't qualified.
Creator application: Your sales call tanked because the prospect couldn't see themselves as "someone who invests in coaching," not because your offer was weak.
Save this to your toolbox as a cheat sheet
Start your year with clarity
Written by Shane Parrish and reMarkable, this workbook helps you pause and reflect. Rather than add pressure, it relieves it, bringing clarity to what truly matters.
A simple reset for January. A thoughtful way to review your year.
What to Do Before Your Next Ask
Before your next pitch, presentation, or proposal, answer this:
What emotional state does this person need to be in to say yes?
Tomorrow, I'm breaking down the complete Influence System, a framework for getting buy-in even when you have zero authority.
If you've ever felt invisible in meetings, passed over for opportunities, or ignored when you know you're right, that one's for you.
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AI can help you move faster, but real leadership still requires human judgment.
The free resource 5 Traits AI Can’t Replace explains the traits leaders must protect in an AI-driven world and why BELAY Executive Assistants are built to support them.